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pharaohandrew t1_jeh4h5r wrote

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jeh4h58 wrote

Okay so I’m coming at this from three ways as a 44F.

  1. it’s urine. It’s a cup. You can wash it. I’ve seen far more gross shit in various dishes someone forgot to clean up and left in the fridge or oven or whatever. Like I once boiled a chicken carcass to make broth, put it in the cold basement to cool, fucking forgot it and went on vacay. Found it like 3 mos later in the cubby under my stairs where i had put it. I wasn’t going to toss a $100 stock pot for that. Note that I have horses and dogs and do wildlife rescue so there’s shit in my house that has been used on the farm and not much grosses me out. The only thing I won’t let anyone reuse is a thermometer if I’ve put it up the butt of one of the animals.

  2. why the fuck is he urinating in a cup? Seriously. I grew up in a house with 6 people and one bathroom. Having to go outside to pee behind the barn in an emergency was a thing. But in a cup?

  3. why is his story changing? Just be honest!

I dunno. 2 and 3 would be my focus. Odd behavior and weird lies.

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RostinBurgerfinkle t1_jeh4gh5 wrote

Or it could be that she's really unhappy in her own marriage/her husband is awful - she sees your husband as a stellar example of what a husband should be, so she's trying to sense check/gain some perspective. Hence all the questions about your marriage etc. I'd recommend just directly asking her why she's asking all of those questions, in a nice way. Could be she's isolated in her marriage and this is a weird cry for help.

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sad0panda t1_jeh4fuv wrote

The application for registration is pretty clear. I am surprised it took them this long.

> NOTE: Dual Registration is when motor vehicles or trailers registered in another state need to be registered in MA under the dual registration concept (MGL Chapter 90, Section 3) and display plates from both jurisdictions (as required in MGL Chapter 90, Section 6). This applies to vehicles that meet all of the following conditions:

> • Owned by nonresidents

> • Registered in another state

> • In the possession of, or under the control of, MA residents for more than 30 days (not necessarily consecutive) within a calendar year period

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degggendorf t1_jeh4fuo wrote

You responded to a person saying their mortgage was 2k and said they must live in a shack, and asked for examples of non-shacks for that price. OP buying a house now is irrelevant to that point. It seems like you just forgot that people could buy things in the past, and now you're moving the goalposts rather than just admitting you were mistaken and being a jerk.

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Delicious-Humor-2019 t1_jeh4fqt wrote

My husband just did this. And the driving force was untreated depression and unresolved trauma. Making huge life decisions when you are depressed is not a good idea IMO. He thinks I caused the depression because he doesn’t understand depression. Nobody is responsible for your happiness and contentment but you. It’s easy to blame shift. So I guess I side with your wife. I think you should treat the depression and make life changes (both of you together) before you make a decision as big as this especially if kids are involved. Husband moved out and now he has someone else to feed his self esteem. Still not treating his issues though. It’s always easier to run then face the problems.

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