At least you're recognizing it now. If you don't like what you're becoming, then that needs to be the motivation for your want to change. My point is that you don't need the gym to be active with people you like to have fun with. Go play outside with your friends.

I see. Well if you’re still fit, but just not as muscular as you were I don’t think it’s a problem unless it’s bothering you. People’s goals concerning their physique can change over time. You gotta do what’s right for you.

I agree but I still think I look relatively good. I want to get back into shape partially for her but due to all the other stuff mentioned I can’t keep a consistent routine.

Swimming is a good idea though I will mention that to her!

It’s already slightly slipped. My body definitely looks different compared to a year ago (i accredit this to alcohol and uni dining hall food) and I have put on a little weight. It’s not crazy but if the trend continues for a while I will be out of shape in a year or two.

Just addressing point 3) you shouldn’t let yourself go thinking you don’t need to look good because you have no one to impress. It’s not really fair to your gf. You’d be slow motion catfishing her. Instead, you should find a way to workout together. It doesn’t have to be at a gym. You could hike together, go swimming. Acroyoga is something cool couples can do too.

Teehee women bad, amirite guys??? 😋🤭🤪😎🙈💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥

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There's no problem with staying at maintenance, as long as you don't eat too much junk and don't get too sedentary with your lifestyle doing activities with your girlfriend to keep your health and motivations in check. Once that starts to slip later on in life, that's the time you'll have a wake-up call.

I don't think this is the artists intent but I see it as working that deadend job to feed and home yourself instead of studying for a better career.

Yeah cool I got this ladder, but I'm freezing and starving now.. So I can't climb the ladder till I get that part sorted out

Edit: to the guy that replied "eat out less" then deleted his comment. I wish I thought of that

I agree Fuck my temporary job I could be wanking all day without it

Yes , but because he choose comfort first it's gonna be significantly harder to climb the ladder and his sawing of the ladder made it it way more easier to snap in half meaning he could loose the opportunity all together .

More like spend less time on netflix and more on studying / excersizing

Well said. I too am learning to be there for myself. It’s easier said than done sometimes, but I’m on that depression boat right now and am trying to read books and find healthy mental habits to add to my day to get out of this rut.

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truly just spitballing, but is there a touch of autism in the picture? What is your social life like? Also take some pride in completing a STEM major!

What's on the other side? Maybe it's better to stay in place and build a fire, stay warm.

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Meme is meh, comments are worse

Now they have a fire and some stilts. Win / win!

Lets apply this to sustainability vs endless growth, then you’ll have my upvote.

You make an excellent point.

For sure!

LOL

Too close to the truth!

Who said I was shaming?

LOL and that's, you know, not exactly actionable advice...