Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated

ValyrianJedi t1_jeenu6o wrote

Tell that one to my granddad. I remember being like 5 and watching Aladdin, and after Aladin stole an apple or some shit at the beginning of the movie my granddad acted like he was the villain the rest of the movie, like yelling at Jasmine not to "get on the rug with that dirty theif"

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Legal_Beginning471 t1_jeelk1t wrote

Sounds like you have a very dependent personality type, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it’s not working out for you. To become more independent, you must define who you are. A person is defined by their convictions, and by how they live. Build your self esteem through introspection, defining your convictions (what you’re most passionate about), and then acting on your convictions. This brings self fulfillment and boosts self esteem.

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ThatsMatheson t1_jeecnae wrote

It’s normal to struggle with gym motivation. However the pros outweigh the cons. Every time I start back I remember how much more energy and confidence I have when I’m actively working out. Not to mention the mental health benefits of knowing everyday I have gym time to myself.

I’m 38 and still very active. I am often mistaken for 28 and even younger if I shave. Your appearance is not only important for you, but it’s important to your partner. Also, appearance might even go a long way in your professional life.

Does your college have a gym? If not, I would suggest either finding a new gym or stick with the one you have. Again, use that time for yourself too. Listen to audiobooks, podcasts, or just enjoy being alone in your thoughts while pushing yourself physically.

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