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north7 t1_j7gxi7q wrote

Anyone who claims to be a "Coach", outside sports, immediately raises red flags for me.
Anyone can call themselves a "life coach" or "relationship coach" with absolutely zero credentials or education, and the credentials out there are largely unregulated, or self-regulated (more red flags).

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darklyger64 t1_j7gu0jc wrote

In marriage, what is the best way in handling finances, assuming both are working but one earns way more than the other.

In this scenario, can I add a step child and a recently born child? How to juggle the dynamic of a teenager and a newborn and what is the best way to keep them close even though they are over a decade apart.

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IAmAModBot t1_j7gtbh5 wrote

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matthewmcorry t1_j7gsrw3 wrote

I think it's probably very common that people experience apprehension regarding 'what if someone out there is better for me?'...

Is this common'? Do you have any advice for dealing with it, or sorting out whether it's a genuine feeling based in the relationship or just a habitual/conditioned fear?

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