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Reply to I 24F want to leave guy 23M I met a week ago by kokopotate

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Reply to My(23F) Bf(24M) shares bites of food with his younger sister by [deleted]

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MarriedLife7 t1_jegk0wk wrote

Reply to I [F32] had one of the worst fights with husband [M32] by [deleted]

He abused you. You need to leave and he needs to kick his mother out.

Him taking your work laptop is childish and you two need therapy if you going to save the marriage. Minimum you tell him you going to a hotel and will be speaking to a lawyer. If he wants to keep this marriage you will listen but he needs to make major changes now.

Are you an owner of the house?

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Critical-Attention51 t1_jegjnyo wrote

Reply to comment by normalboyz1 in Me 24F and Boyfriend 23M , 3 year relationship while living together nearly the entire time.. I’ve made an interesting discovery by [deleted]

Thank you for your reply!

We’ve had many talks about it! Both agreed that if it comes to a point where he feels like he will slip back into old secretive ways, and if he has absolutely any respect or care for me as a human, he would either tell me straight up or if it feels hard doing that then write me a little note (we’ve always left each other notes).

I even offered us sexting people together and he wasn’t against it but said it’s not something he wants to continue doing either alone or with someone.. time will tell, but i’ve made it very clear that me agreeing to work on/move past this is not me saying that what he did was okay, or that i’m the type of person to be scared to leave.

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Reply to bc 28M. cheated on me 21F by brownbaddie66

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tickleyourfanny t1_jegjffz wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in [26M] [24F] she was only dating me for sex and I feel kinda disgusted by throwRA283108

definitely something wrong with you...I will keep biting the bait, i got a couple min.

lets try again...there is no right and wrong..some people want to have only Casual sex and others want a relationship. They are both correct..Nothing wrong with Casual sex( ask any pedophile) and nothing wrong with a more committed relationship (ask any pedophile). The two of you want two different things and there is nothing wrong with that. It didn't work out my man, now learn to bang coke hoes without falling in love, if you are so bothered..Here is your ultimate advice. Wear a condom cuz you absolutely dont know where dem chicken heads have been. You wont be able to put dem hoes on rewind if the std test get declined.

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[deleted] OP t1_jegjcvw wrote

Reply to comment by explicitlinguini in I (34F) am in love with my best friend (44F) who is also my ex gf. But I’ve been with my bf (45M) for nearly a year and we’re about to move-in and I’m feeling uneasy about the dynamic and how to handle this. by [deleted]

You’re not wrong. As I read your comment, I think I’m making the realization that I’ve basically been in denial on multiple fronts. The truth, as you correctly point out, is that I’m not her priority, she did hurt me substantially already, and she will be the demise of my current relationship if things continue as-is. Thank you

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