Submitted by ThrowRAMisinformed t3_10hiq3l in relationship_advice
Long story short, my girlfriend slept with a colleague on a work trip. I am currently hurt, broken and deflated. I don't think I blame her, but that's not the point. I don't know much about the colleague, other than he's 5 years younger than her and I. So naturally I was curious and upon looking on his Facebook profile found that he has a long term partner.
Should I message her and tell her? I don't mean to take revenge on the guy, but my girlfriend has been lying to me about it before she finally cracked and admitted it, and as much as it hurts, it's better to find out the truth. and I think in that woman's position, I'd like to know.