Viewing a single comment thread. View all comments

PassengerNumerous607 OP t1_j1dzo1v wrote

Reply to comment by -Chris-V- in TIFU by sleeping with a friend. And I mean just sleeping by PassengerNumerous607

I think I replied to you before, but that is the purpose of this post. I am trying to work through whether or not I crossed a line or I’m over reacting, since things like cuddling or hugging can seem so inconsequential and juvenile to people. I felt I crossed a line and wanted other opinions so thank you for that perspective. We’re having lunch at his request in about an hour so we’ll see.

2

-Chris-V- t1_j1e12r5 wrote

I hope it goes well, and that this is an opportunity for growth. I feel like you're on the cusp of personally getting past some complicated issues we're grappling with in our society. I wish you well.

For what it's worth, even though it's not the right subreddit to say so, my vote is NTA.

1

-Chris-V- t1_j1hmvr4 wrote

So, how was lunch?

1

PassengerNumerous607 OP t1_j1hyea3 wrote

my comment about lunch. Not much happened. I’m lazy and don’t feel like editing anything anymore so you got good timing and I’ll tell u what was said via text last night. He said “idk how or why it would, but if it happened again i would not complain”

2

-Chris-V- t1_j1i1isz wrote

Sounds like maybe in January you should offer to buy this guy a beer (jk, lol, maybe a non alcohol related date that's deliberately a date).

1